Since many people with ADD/ADHD are also gifted and energetic, they may find ways to get by, even to seem highly successful--but the personal cost is always high.
The ADD/ADHD personality type has certain very real advantages, and it is easy to see that in some environments it might prove highly adaptive, which is no doubt why evolution has conserved these traits. It is only maladaptive--i.e., a "condition," a "syndrome," or a "disorder"--when there is a serious mismatch between the demands of the environment and the perceptual and behavioral patterns of the individual.
I believe that at present there is such a mismatch, and that for most of us who have the ADD/ADHD personality type it is difficult, sometimes even impossible, to meet the demands of modern life and to tolerate the stresses those demands create for us.
If an energetic six-year-old is allowed to run around and climb, as his body is meant to do, his high energy level will seem admirable, not problematic. But if he is expected to sit still, focus at length on tasks that are often boring and meaningless (at least to him), to keep strangely quiet, and to ignore the fact that a lot of potential playmates are crowded into the same room with him, then his behavior is likely to seem disruptive.
And when he is admonished to conform to rules of "acceptable" behavior, but still does not sit still, keep quiet, and stay on task, then his behavior--which is really far more normal for a very young primate than the behavior required of him--is likely to be seen as willful and disobedient or, in our more psychologized era, as symptomatic of a "deficit," a "condition," or a "syndrome"--even, as the Themestream taxonomy considered it, a "mental illness" or a "psychiatric disorder."
In some cultures a man who is quick to rage and to kill an enemy at the slightest provocation would be considered admirable, a role model for young boys to emulate. A man who is gentle, forgiving, and empathetic would be considered weak and useless. In our society, the raging homicidal warrior would be considered a dangerous sociopath, whereas the kind, understanding, gentle man would come very close to the ideal in many well-respected professions.
But within certain professional subcultures, the gentle man would be reviled as a milquetoast and a failure, while his more predatory and ruthless colleagues would excite admiration.
My point, of course, is that there is a very wide range of human behaviors and personality types, and those that are adaptive in one sort of environment may be seriously maladaptive in another.
It's too bad that our society cannot find a more humane way of dealing with children and adults who march to the (often much faster) beat of a different drum and of making use of their often considerable talents and gifts. But since very little is done to acknowledge and to accommodate differences in the way people perceive, learn, and work, we must deal with the fact that those of us who have the ADD/ADHD personality type are in many ways not well-adapted to our social environment. As far as the rest of society is concerned we do have a "condition" or a "disorder."
But I still won't cop to being mentally ill! ______________________ |